20 Signs you should leave your boyfriend

1. He no longer considers your feelings. 
If you break your leg and your man doesn’t even visit you in the emergency room, that’s a problem. It shouldn’t have to come to that extreme: little signs that indicate a lack of empathy should be enough for you to know that your relationship has run its course.
 

2. He is no longer a Mr. Nice Guy

Nice guys should always finish first! Don’t keep a boyfriend who disrespects teachers, acts nasty to parents, calls you names or disses your friends. Trade that meanie for a nice guy and you’ll end up in a much happier relationship.

3. He’s become the invisible man
When you’re with someone, they should be there. If you are in a long distance relationship, that’s one thing. If your man lives across town but you hardly ever see him…that’s a sure clue that he’s just not into you anymore.


4. He packs on the pressure.   

Your boyfriend should never pressure you into doing anything you don’t want to do, and you should never do anything that makes you uncomfortable. If your boyfriend really cares about you, he’ll respect your decision even if that decision is no.

5. He becomes “Mr. X”
You used to know your man inside and out but now you don’t know what’s going on in his life. For all you know he’s changed jobs, his name, his hair-colour, his sexual orientation. You can’t be in a relationship if you don’t even know the person you’re in a relationship with.


6. Too much fighting, not enough fun

Relationships should make you happy, not get you down all the time. If there’s no fun left and all you do is fight, it’s time to either fix the problem or walk away.

 

 

7. You can’t stand the very sight of him
You used to love his face. The cute way he smiled at you. Now…whenever you see him you want to throw up. Before, he said the cutest things. Now, if he speaks you want to slap him. Again, this may be extreme but if you don’t have an attraction to your man anymore, that’s a BIG problem.

 

8. He hasn't got the time.  

Does he blow off your date nights to hang with his friends, ignore your calls or give you the cold shoulder? If he doesn’t make an effort to set time aside for you, then why are you putting so much effort towards spending time with him?


9. You keep secrets

One of the best things about being in a relationship is that you have someone you can confide in. A confidant is someone you can trust. If you can share with your man, it’s because you can’t trust him.

10. He doesn't support your goals or have any of his own 

When you tell him about your goal of singing the national anthem at a football game, becoming a veterinarian or getting straight A’s, your boyfriend shouldn’t rolls his eyes and laugh in your face. Your guy should never put you down or make you feel like you can’t make your dreams come true, no matter what they are. You should both have your own goals and should want to succeed together.   

11. He Doesn’t Tell You About Important Things
This one ties into number five. You may still tell your man things but he doesn’t tell you things. Very important things like he’s seeing someone else.


12. He doesn't support your goals or have any of his own
When you tell him about your goal of singing the national anthem at a football game, becoming a veterinarian or getting straight A's, your boyfriend should not rolls his eyes and laugh in your face. Your guy should never put you down or make you feel like you can't make your dreams come true, no matter what they are. You should both have your own goals and should want to succeed together.

 

13. You feel trapped
You feel crushed by the love you feel for your boyfriend. The weight of it is immense. No situation is unchangeable. You can free yourself. You just need the strength of your convictions.


14. He gets controlling

Your boyfriend shouldn’t be telling you what you can and can’t wear, where you can and can’t go or who you can and can’t hang out with. Time to say sayanora forever to that control freak. You are your own person and can make your own decision; you don’t need a boy telling you what to do.

 

 

15. You’re very unhappy
You can’t expect that every day in a relationship is going to be sunshine and lollipops. However, if everyday feels like slow torture and you just want to curl up into a ball and cry…that’s not a good thing. You could be depressed but if you feel this way because of the one your with…you don’t need a therapist to tell you that breaking up may make you loads happier.

 

16. He always makes you pay
We’re not saying a guy should pay for you every time you go out; going halfsies is great and it’s even okay if you volunteer to pay for him every now and then. But if he always makes you pick up the lunch tab, buy his coffee or grab his movie ticket, that’s not okay.

 

 

17. His little bad habits make your blood boil
If your man does little things that make you want to go nuclear all the time, he should leave your crazy behind alone !


18. Drama with your family and bestie
A guy should always try to get along with the people who are important to you. If he doesn't care about being nice to your parents or if he avoids being around your friends, then you have a problem.
You are family and friends care about you, if they dont like your new beau, hear them out ! They Probably have a good reason.


19. He flirts.... with other girls !
Your boyfriend should be flirting with you, not your whole class. Being friendly is okay, but if it goes beyond that, your sweetheart needs to get his flirting under control or it is time to move on. One more thing, if your boyfriend cheats, kick him to the curb, pronto!


20. He can't control his temper

It is okay to get angry, it is not okay to yell and curse at someone. And it is really not okay to throw things or get violent, ever. If your boyfriend can't handle his anger in an appropriate way, he is not the right guy for you.