20 signs you should leave your girlfriend

 

1. She criticises you
If your girlfriend is criticising your every movement, and even worse, ridiculing you in front of others, it is time for her to go. Why spend time with someone who is obviously not happy with whom you are? Break up with your girlfriend and find someone who loves you and your personality.


2. She has no manners
There are some manners that are just plain common sense, such as saying “hi” when meeting someone. If your girlfriend doesn’t even have the common courtesy to greet your friends or family, is either because she hates them, or because she thinks she is too cool for them.


3. She is self-centered
Your girlfriend only thinks about her, and you appear in the picture only when she needs you to fulfill one of her desires. For example, you can only go to a party if it’s a party she likes, you can only watch a movie together if she approves it and you can only talk to the friends she likes.


4. She doesnt know how to communicate
Relationships can’t work if there’s no communication, and by communication I mean a dialogue, not a monologue. If your girlfriend is the only one that gets to talk whenever an argument arises, run for your life! That means she is not interested in what you have to say and, probably, will never be.


5. She is controlling
If everything has to be to her way or the highway, beware! This type of girl will completely devoid you of your personality and happiness.


6. She lies
No one likes a liar, especially when dating. Lies only bring doubts to a relationship, and who wants to constantly be doubting whether your significant other is telling you the truth or not?


7. She flirts with other guys
I don’t think I need to explain this one…


8. She has cheated on you
Same as above, no explanation needed. I guess after the first cheat, it requires a lot of faith to believe your girlfriend won’t do it again. I’m not saying it’s impossible, just very unlikely.


9. She compares you with other guys
If your girlfriend is always comparing you, why is she with you in the first place? Plus, who likes to be constantly hearing others are better? This is a definite sign that you need to get away as soon as possible.


10. When you hesitate before seeing her
This is a subtle sign. If you live together, do you hesitate before walking in the door. If you live apart, do you hesitate before knocking? These are signs that you're getting yourself emotionally ready for whatever may come next. Not a good sign when it's time to be with someone you are supposed to love, or at least like a lot.


11. When you start to calculate how much money she costs you
A less subtle sign that maybe you are starting to consider if she is worth what she is costing you. When you start wondering that, it usually means she is not, at least to you.


12. When the sight of her makes you want to run
This is one of those obvious signs that you may have been overlooking nonetheless.


13. When her voice starts to hurt your ears
A woman's voice can be soothing and sweet; it can be sexy and demure. It can even be happy and hopeful. It all depends on how you feel about her. If her voice starts to get on your nerves, the chances are good that it's about her, not her voice.


14. When the bad times happen far more often than the good
It's always good to pause now and then to take stock of your relationship. If when you think back over the last several months, or years, does it seem like the dark days outnumber the happy good days? If so, that might be a really good sign.


15. When just thinking of her makes you angry
Clearly not a good sign. Of course you need to make sure it's not because you just had a big fight with her. But seriously, does thinking of her just up and out of the blue make you feel angry, or full of anxiety? These are signs that things are not going well, and perhaps it's time to make a change.


16. When you realise you don't actually love her
Sometimes it takes awhile for the initial obsession to wear away a bit before someone is able to see that they just don't really love this other person. If that is the case, then it's best to get out sooner than later because it will only be worse later.


17. You know she doesn't like you
If you know that she does't like you, then you should also know that she will leave you as soon as she
finds someone better.


18. She has constant emotional problems
Don't fall pray to drama queens and other emotional vampires. They will suck all the energy out of
you and then move on to their next victims.


19.  You don't like yourself when you're with her
If you don't like who you are when you're not with a woman, she is not going to make a good long-term girlfriend for you no matter how hot she is.


20. She is too needy and demanding
Women who are a tiny bit needy is okay. But if a woman is extremely demanding of you, then you
should find someone who's not as demanding.